At the age of 12, Howard Dully underwent a trans-orbital (through the eye sockets) lobotomy at the behest of his stepmother, who could not cope with his behavioral problems. In frank and straightforward language, Dully (now 52) describes his dysfunctional family background in the years leading up to the procedure. He then relates the story of how the same family ultimately abandoned him when the lobotomy did not have the desired effect. Dully’s behavior in the years following his lobotomy was characterized by drug abuse, crime, and stints in juvenile detention and jail.
Dully eventually uncovers the truth about the surgery he underwent at age 12, which his family has always refused to discuss with him. The revelations shock him, but at the same time he finally understands how he can begin getting his life together.
The author provides background on Dr. Walter Freeman, the doctor who pioneered the “ice pick” variation on the lobotomy and carried out the surgery on Dully in 1960. That lobotomies were ever a common procedure fascinates today; the fact that a doctor was convinced to perform one on a normal 12-year-old boy horrifies. Ultimately, I think this book is less about lobotomies and their effects than it is about the life-long psychological and emotional effects of abuse and neglect on a child. The author’s eventual redemption and capacity for forgiveness are inspiring. For more on the history of lobotomy and the fascinating Dr. Freeman, read Jack el-Hai’s The Lobotomist.
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I’m not sure if this went through before…..While tracing my family’s genealogy, I came across a picture of a cousin, June Pierce, with her baby and written on the back of the photo was Howard August Dully. I googled the name and was so stunned by the story of the family, the operation and Howard’s life as it tragically unfolded. I must have been too young to have been privey to the information. I don’t know if Howard would want to talk with me but I do have some pictures of his mother, June, which he might want to have copies of. I have no other way to try to contact him…..he is the only link to that branch of the Schall family. His great-grandmother was the sister of my grandmother.
howarddully@comcast.net
of course I’d love to chat with you
Wow, what an incredible story! Started the book this morning and will finish it before bedtime.
Dear Mr. Dully,
I just finished reading your book and it had a profound impact on me. What a tragic childhood you endured. I find it so amazing and uplifting that you emerged from this a vital loving person. I will say a prayer for you and I will pray for all the children in this world who also have to grow up with a narcassistic parent (your dad) or a sociopathic step parent. God bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Marti